The
original Bottoming and Topping books, first published over 10 years
ago,
gave plenty of great information and advice for "bottoms" and
"Tops".
These newly updated editions contain much of the original content, such
as "how to negotiate", being safe, sane and consensual, etc. however,
now
they are updated with information and how-to's for the cyber world
players,
as well! There are sections on meeting someone online via chat rooms,
mailing
lists and/or Internet newsgroups along with great ideas for ways to
convert
from "cyber" to "real-time," and dealing with the fact that their
"reality"
may not be your reality. They include chapters describing
different
"scenes" and tips on how to start and end a scene. There are
discussions
on role play, with short subsections about bondage and submission. Each
book is geared to help the Top or the bottom in their quest to "match
up"
with the other, as well as being perfect BDSM instruction guides for
both!
Bottoming Book Item
#660-5394 Price: $15.95
Topping
Book
Item
#660-5396 Price: $15.95
Anal Pleasure
& Health A
Guide for Men and
Women by
Jack Morin, PH.D.
The
most comprehensive anal play book of its time! This is
the first and only
research-based guide for the millions of men and women, of all sexual
orientations,
who want to include the anal area in their erotic exploration. Updating
his findings for the 21st century, author Jack Morin, Ph.D., explains
how
to replace negative emotions and beliefs about the anus with positive
attitudes;
how to simultaneously enjoy anal stimulation and promote anal wellness;
how to know and communicate your requirements for satisfying anal
experiences;
and how to contribute to your own healing when you have medical
problems.
Anal Pleasure and Health Book
Item #660-1170
Price: $18.95
Bondage
for Sex by
Chanta Rose
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photo for inside
book details
Bondage
is a wonderful way to enhance your love-making however, there are
questions
like, "How would people know how to tie safely?" or "What type of
knot do I use?" or "Which kind of rope do I buy?" and the most
important
question, "How do I approach my partner with the idea of kinky sex?"
These
questions and more are answered with clear concise descriptions along
with large
full color, beautifully photographed depictions of each style and/or
technique. Chanta
Rose does a wonderful
job of breaking down the barriers and making rope bondage simple for
all
who wish to try it. Bondage for Sex is the perfect couple book
for
learning the ropes of love making!
Bondage for Sex
Book Item #660-1520
Price: $31.95
The Ultimate
Guide to Sexual
Fantasy by
Violet Blue
Turn
your favorite sexual
fantasies into reality, safely and successfully... The complete guide
for
everyone—women and men, singles and couples! Join the legions of
couples
and singles who are making their hottest sexual fantasies come true.
Whether
you're looking for an endless supply of fantasy ideas or expert advice
for a playful, imaginative sex life that turns you both on, this
charming
and information-packed book will tell you exactly what you need to know:
*
Learn your lover's secret
fantasies
*
Role-play: hot, dramatic
sex without feeling silly
*
Comprehensive lists of
the most popular fantasies and fetishes—complete with suggestions for
props,
toys, and costumes (and where to buy them)
* Expert
help for deciding
just how far to take your fantasies
* Create
thrilling S/M scenarios
* Racy
sex games for lovers
* How to
strip, lap dance,
talk dirty
* Make
your own porn and
erotic photographs
*
PLUS... hot new stories by
best-selling erotica author Alison Tyler
The Ultimate Guide
to Sexual Fantasy Item #660-7820
Price: $14.95
Radical Ecstasy by Dossie Easton
& Janet W. Hardy
For millennia, seekers have used physical and emotional
extremes to achieve transcendence and exaltation. Today, many BDSM and
leather practitioners are discovering the potential of SM practice to
reach personal, interpersonal and spiritual goals.
In "Radical Ecstasy," bestselling BDSM/sexuality authors
Easton and Hardy document their own journeys into the transcendent
realm of kink. With their trademark frankness and humor, they share
their own stories and philosophies &endash; one author's journeys
along Eastern and pagan spiritual paths, the other's frustratingly
left-brained struggles to accept undeniable experiences of personal
bliss, and their mutual triumphs when differences in terminology and
conceptual framework cease to matter and bodies and spirits combine in
states of radical ecstasy.
They also share techniques that have worked for them -
techniques which combine tantric breathing, visualization and movement
with a combined half-century of BDSM experience - to create states of
transcendence during solo and partnered sexual and BDSM practice.
As outrageously revolutionary as any sex book published in
the last decade, "Radical Ecstasy" sets the stage for the new
millennium in BDSM and sacred-sex practices - a "must" for any kink,
tantra, pagan or sacred-sex practitioner. Price: $16.95
Spank Me The
Art of the Spirit "It's old fashioned
spanking with a contemporary twist. This exciting art leaves me wishing
I could enter The Spirit's world for real and be put over the lap of
one
of his hot, wicked, sexy babes." Angela Rose. The Spirit's Studio,
established
in 1998, is about conveying ideas, stories and emotions though high
quality
art, photography and video.
First
Person Sexual by
Joani Blank, Editor
True
stories from over three dozen men and women as they relate a myriad of
ways to "beat the meat" and "fluff the muff." Sex
toys feature prominently in many of these masturbation memoirs,
including
an electric toothbrush that provides a first orgasm and a pregnant
woman's
tantalizing use of dime-store candies as anal toys. It encompasses
autobiographies,
short stories, anecdotes, essays, meditations, and musings on the topic
of something that almost all of us do, but almost nobody talks about.
Because
the book collects lots of short pieces, it's almost guaranteed that
everyone
will find something of interest to them, whether it's erotic or comic
or
moving or thought-provoking or all those things at once. Enjoy many
sweaty
hours of "one-handed" reading, and add your own story using the blank
pages
at the end of the book.
First Person Sexual
Book
Item #660-2778
Price: $14.95
Sex
Disasters and
how to survive them
by
Charles Moser, PH.D., M.D., &
Janet W. Hardy
Some
sex disasters make you laugh. Some make you cringe. Some send you
running
for help. And here's the place to learn about all of them...a jammed
handcuff,
a cop at the door, a date who won't take no for an answer, a
short-circuited
vibrator and dozens more.
Moser
and Hardy have teamed up with attorneys, cops, EMTs, therapists and sex
educators to bring you this tongue-in-cheek - but accurate -
guide
to surviving those awkward moments in the bedroom, back seat, dungeon,
bushes...
Sex Disasters
Book
Item #
660-7062
Price: $16.95 $11.95
SEXCITEMENT The
Art of Love by
Lynn Paula Russell
Second
in the Art of Love series, with 20 illustrations in color by Paula and
additional illustrations by Sylvie Jones, 'Sexcitement' describes a
wide
variety of erotic activities step by step, combining highly personal
accounts
and insights with useful information and suggestions, to help couples
maintain
that erotic sparkle. This
book explores unusual sexual activities. Answering such questions as
"what
do we know about fetish and other 'kinky' practices? outdoor sex - how
daring can I be? would I like bondage and corporal punishment?" Lynn
Paula
Russell explores alternative sex.
Sexcitement Book
Item #660-7060
Price: $35.95
$20.00
The
BIG Book of Masturbation by
Martha Cornog Enjoy yourself... it's
later than you think!
Few
subjects have been as maligned and mythologized through the ages and
across
so many disciplines as masturbation, with descriptions ranging from
self-abuse
to self-love. The
BIG Book of Masturbation addresses the myths and questions that have
plagued
society for centuries, from whether you get hairy palms and/or go blind
from masturbating to whether self-pleasuring is illegal! Jeez!!
The author
shares
with us how porcupines and other animals pleasure themselves (if you wanted to know that or not!),
attitudes
about solo sex practices from the South Seas to South Africa, and Mark
Twain's views on the subject. This unique volume brings together a
wealth of fact and
opinion
from the pages of linguistics, law, history, social science,
philosophy,
religion, spirituality, medicine, and many more.
Presenting
masturbation from a variety of perspectives, including some creative
ideas and methods for this intriguing and universally
practiced behavior. So sit (or lay) back and enjoy! A perfect compliment as a
gift with one of our great vibrations
toys or our new kit (see below)!
Big
Book of
Masturbation
Item #
660-1442
Price: $22.00
" I Touch Myself..." Kit
Here's a
great combination for anyone who cares to explore more... of
themselves! With this clever combo of great reading, a
versatile
vibrator and warming lubricant, you'll never have another boring night
alone again! The Red Cyber
Vyber Plus+ multi-adjusting vibrator is German engineered to
perfection, The Big Book of Masturbation is just
that! Then add a bottle of Wet Warming lube for an extra special
sensation and this kit will have you making excuses to stay at home!
"I
Touch Myself..." Kit
Item # 340-9110
Price: $69.00
This hard-bound (mmmmm...)
book has 120 pages filled with gorgeous color
photographs and notes of intimate BDSM moments cherished between a
slavegirl &
her Master. The husband and Master of Anna, Uwe Rose, took all of the hi-resolution
photographs during their first 2 years together.
Page
after page of uniquely captured photographs of Anna Rose, show her
devotion along with the penetrating words she writes describing her
feelings, desires, wishes and fears. "My Love" explores
the sexual & psychological submission of a loving relationship
between a slavegirl and her Master.
My Love: Diary of
S/M Relationship Item #660-5880 Price:
$47.00 $35.00
Intimate
Invasions the
erotic ins & outs of enema play
by
M.R. Strict Finally
back in print... The
title says it all! Klismaphilia - enema play - is one of the last
taboos
of kinky sex, yet this style of play can be erotic, intense and safe.
M.R.
Strict, an experienced practitioner whose expertise and enthusiasm have
been shared by hundreds of thousands of devotees on his website, shares
some of his hottest and most outrageous personal enema experiences
(with
men and women, gay and straight). Between the anecdotes, he explains
the
psychology, physiology and safety issues of using enemas as a
disciplinary
scenario, part of a medical roleplay, preparation for other forms of
play
or simply as exciting foreplay.
The
first book that explains how to bring the thrilling yet forbidden
practice
of klismaphilia to your own bedroom!
Originally
published in 1992, it is one of the most recommended guidebooks
on BDSM ever written.
The book begins with preliminary issues, including the
definition of SM, then covers the fundamentally important issues such
as consent safewords, negotiation (including both short-form and
long-form checklists), setting the scene, and aftercare.
Actual techniques described at some length include rope bondage
and
other forms of restraint, giving and receiving of erotic pain,
flagellation, clamps, spanking, lubricants, genital play,
anal play, erotic humiliation, knife play, dominant/submissive
interactions, slave training, collars, and much more. It includes
sections about general safety
considerations, doing SM during pregnancy, SM and safer sex, and
dealing with common SM-related emergencies. It also
offers information on how to set up SM organizations
and events, etc.
There is a
special "starter" chapter titled "A Novice Woman's Quick Reference
Guide to Erotically
Dominating a Submissive Man" that lays out a step-by-step blueprint for
a basic SM session and a chapter devoted to related practices
such as enema play, fetishism, fisting, polyamory, and tantra. It has a
substantial bibliography and reference section and glossary.
SM 101 Book
Item #660-7103
Price: $24.95
Fantasy Made
Flesh The
Essential Guide to
Erotic Roleplay by
Deborah Addington
Slave,
princess, barbarian,
hoodlum, nasty nurse, devious doctor, hooker: roles like these drive
our
fantasies, but often resist being brought into reality. Here you'll
learn
to become the creature of your dreams, letting go of bashfulness and
self-criticism,
setting the stage with props, environment and costumes to bring your
most
outrageous fantasies into living, breathing, incredibly-turned-on
reality!
Fantasy Made Flesh
Book Item #660-2670
Price: $13.95
P.S.
Need some outfits
for that role play? A
Hand
in the Bush The Fine
Art of Vaginal
Fisting
by
Deborah
Addington
Vaginal
fisting - the intimate,
potent sexual act of gradually inserting the entire hand into the
vagina
- is an increasingly popular form of sexplay among lesbians, bisexuals
and heterosexuals alike. Now, for the first time, an experienced fister
and fistee explains in detail how to fist with the greatest possible
safety
and pleasure. Extensively illustrated, this long-awaited guide by
Deborah
Addington has been approved by three fisting-positive physicians and by
many experienced practitioners. Also includes an eye-opening section of
anecdotes and poetry by fisting-lovers, plus an extensive resource
guide.
A must-have "handbook" for the sexually explorative!
Hand
in the Bush Book Item
#660-3340 Price:
$14.95
How to Be Kinky: A
Beginner's Guide to BDSM
by Morpheus
How to be Kinky
offers the perfect starting place
for anyone (couples or singles alike!) who want to take a look at
walking on the wild side of role play and BDSM, but have questions...
lots of questions! This book is filled with answers! It
takes a common sense, practical approach to engaging an S&M scene,
negotiating kinky play with a partner, while maintaining boundaries. It
addresses the proper protocol expected at fetish events, as well as the
basics of BDSM play and role-playing. Geared towards both dominants and
submissives, it's packed with tips and anecdotes from dozens of fetish
world aficionados.Illustrated and in a user- friendly format, this book
will take the fear out of your exploration and Morpheous
shows you how to begin (with a bit of tongue-in-cheek
humor) the journey to kink-dom fun and exciting, always focused on
communication, fun, and safety. It has erotic photos (b&w) and
illustrations.
How To Be
Kinky Book Item #660-3412
Price: $16.95
Femalia edited
by Joani Blank
This
book is a unique photographic "catalog" of women's genitalia, hence,
Femalia! The artistic photography shows us that each human body is
unique and beautiful, like a snowflake, no two are exactly alike. The
vulva displayed in this book were selected from thirty-two women of
varied ages, races, and ethnicities. Some have experienced childbirth.
There is no narration, so just who has experienced what is left to
one's own imagination. These depictions of the female genitalia are
fascinating and most provocative; nowhere else can you see the great
variety of size, shape and color.
Femalia Book Item #660-2720
Price: $14.50
The G-spot has long been regarded as one of a woman's most
mysterious, elusive and sought-after pleasure zones—but now, expertise
is within your reach. The Good Vibrations Guide: The G-Spot explains:
how to find the spot; how to enhance your G-spot pleasure; how to let
your partner in on the secret; how the G-spot has fared through medical
and literary history.
You'll also find an eye-opening anatomy lesson and
no-nonsense debunking of the myths surrounding female ejaculation, with
references and a bibliography. Whether you're just starting out or a
practiced G-spot explorer, the tips and techniques in these pages are
sure to hit the spot!
Erotic
fiction anthology
based on the idea that the brain is the body's largest sexual organ.
Telepaths,
empaths, mind-readers and psychics inhabit these stories, where lust
pools
beneath the surface and erotic communication goes beyond the spoken
word:
Two people who fantasize about each other discover their fantasies are
interactive and interconnected. A lonely empath seeks out others
through
psychic personal ads.
Circlet
Press' erotic science
fiction and fantasy anthologies gather varieties of sexual
orientations:
the male and female, top and bottom, straight and kinky explorations
here
will satisfy any connoisseur of erotic fiction.
The Loving Dominant by
John Warren, Ph.D.
John
Warren, known as "Mentor" to the many who have read his books or
hearkened to his sage advice at his workshops and gatherings, brought
his decades of BDSM experience to his classic manual "The Loving
Dominant". Out of print for several years, this classic is now
available once again, now in a revised and updated second edition in a
quality trade binding. From the advice on "Stalking the Wild
Submissive" to the extensive Resource Guide, "The Loving Dominant"
offers perhaps the greatest breadth of subject of any basic BDSM guide
available today -- including some basic toymaking patterns and an
entire chapter on BDSM photography!
Loving Dominant Book Item #660-4858
Price: $13.95
The Mistress Manual by Lorelei
Female dominance acts out
in a myriad of ways, techniques and styles, which usually depends on
the roles or needs of the submissive. This timeless classic "how-to"
for "the good girl" who wants to know everything about being dominant,
will give the
details... from what to wear to what to say, tasks and trials
to put your submissive (or sissy) through and
much more. It even has some sample slave contracts!
It's full of useful tips and advice
along with some of the technical aspects of BDSM.
Sex
Disasters 
Sex Disasters
Book
This hard-bound (mmmmm...)
book has 120 pages filled with gorgeous color
photographs and notes of intimate BDSM moments cherished between a
slavegirl &
her Master. The husband and Master of Anna, Uwe Rose, took all of the 
