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Reviews
of Whipsmart
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From the Spectator by Abby Ehmann
Issue 1262, 4 December 2002
My first thought when I heard about Whipsmart
was, ‘Does the world really need another S/M how-to video?’ But that
was
before I met Mistress Morgana, the elegant, effervescent woman who
serves
as both narrator and teacher in this informative instructional video.
Morgana
was recently awarded the title Best Sex Worker by the San Francisco Bay
Guardian, so this whipsmart babe really knows her stuff. And the fact
that
the video is produced by Good Vibrations, the Kmart of kink, only adds
to the flick’s credibility.
Of
course, all the credentials in the world don’t necessarily conspire to
make a quality product. So let’s address that initial question: Does
the
world need another S/M how-to video? Perhaps not. From the way BDSM
seems
to have pervaded the mainstream, there’s no shortage of kittens with
whips.
The thought of your neighbors tying each other up for kicks doesn’t
even
sound racy anymore. And if you were to spot a pair of handcuffs in a
coworker’s
drawer, you probably wouldn’t think twice. That, of course, is because
you’re a Spectator reader and a worldly perv already, right?
But
what if you were still a member of the uninitiated vanilla masses?
Suppose
you’d only vaguely entertained the idea of putting your partner over
your
knee for a little recreational spanking? You might feel more
comfortable
venturing into the dark side armed with a little insider information.
And
maybe a few words of encouragement to help you broach the subject with
your equally uninitiated partner. If that sounds like it could be you,
Whipsmart is the perfect place to start.
Mistress
Morgana was approached by Ms. Kennedy and Ms. Plotkin after the two
attended
one of Morgana’s classes at Good Vibrations. The three agreed that
while
there were plenty of instructional videos available to the S/M
community,
there was a lack of material for those who were just starting out.
“People
who were attending my classes or visiting me in my dungeon were a
little
scared off by what they perceived as the ‘leather community,’” Mistress
Morgana admits. “These are people who don’t own chaps and aren’t
interested
in suspending their partner from the ceiling from meat hooks.”
Consequently,
Morgana and the Good Vibrations ladies thought they would be a perfect
team to bring the basics to these curious explorers. “Whipsmart,"
Morgana
proudly states, "is an effort to break down kink in accessible terms
and
show folks how to do it safely and with a sense of love.”
I couldn’t agree more!
The
video opens with Mistress Morgana’s authoritatively reassuring voice
accompanied
by soothing, mood-enhancing music. The homey environment is warmly
candlelit
to further set the tone. This is an entry-level instructional tape, and
Morgana is both attractive and accessible, the schoolmistress of your
dreams.
Which is cause for her to chuckle, “My presentation style is somewhere
between Mr. Rogers and Martha Stewart.” Minus the cardigan sweater and
stock scandal, of course! She enunciates perfectly as she defines words
to newbies such as ‘S/M’ and ‘role play.’
“I
was most excited about the inclusion of BDSM terms,” she says,
referring
to the extensive glossary of terminology.
Following
this basic vocabulary lesson, Morgana explains negotiation and why it’s
necessary, stressing the BDSM words to live by, “safe, sane and
consensual.”
“I
think this video is a particularly useful tool for the nervous
boyfriend
or girlfriend,” she says, “who is looking for a way to tell their
partner
about their fantasies but scared of being inarticulate or judged.” This
is dealt with very effectively in the video, first by Morgana’s
humorous
explanations and then by a dramatization, enacted by a “curious
couple.”
I enjoyed watching them dance around the issue a bit, exactly the way
people
might in reality. Throughout the video, precise wording is emphasized,
contrasting ways to more effectively elicit the desired response from
one’s
partner.
Once
she’s covered communication skills, Morgana gives detailed instructions
on the basics: spanking, beginner bondage, handcuffs, nipple clamps, et
cetera. Sensory exploration is emphasized over actual pain here, which
also helps it feel safer for beginners. But as a seasoned scene voyeur,
if not a full-on participant, I can say that even I learned a few
things.
The uses of feathers, ice cubes, and hot wax are all explained and
demonstrated
in a sensual manner.
After
the introductory scene with a hetero couple, we are treated to a
lesbian
couple, who demonstrate interaction between slightly more experienced
players.
The two make amusing use of a butcher-block table and are impressively
inventive with kitchen utensils. This scene is pretty hot, and as their
play progresses, the participants take it into the bedroom, where
things
get even hotter. While this is nowhere near a jerk-off video, the
vignettes
are sexy and will certainly serve to inspire viewers.
Mistress
Morgana’s warm personality shines brightly in this video, and she makes
BDSM sound as innocuous as baking a cake. Her conspiratorial tone and
the
well-written script will put even the queasiest viewers at ease. I
highly
recommend Whipsmart for anyone with a curiosity for kink!
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From Soapbox Girls by Olivia St. John
The Sexuality Issue, July
2002
Whipsmart is exactly what it purports to
be — which is kind of novel for the world of porn. How many of us have
been sucked in by an upscale box design (upscale for porn, anyway),
only
to find that the movie has little to do with — well, anything really?
Whipsmart
doesn’t pretend to be anything it isn’t. It is a basic guide to S/M for
couples; it isn’t particularly raunchy or kinky (by my standards,
anyway),
but it’s very informative.
Mistress Morgana, who appears in or narrates
most of the video, offers clear instruction on the terminology, tools,
and techniques of this kind of sex play. She offers tips on how to tie
ropes, how to talk to your partner about S/M fantasies, how to spank
another
person correctly, how to negotiate a scene, how to choose the proper
nipple
clamps, safe words — you name it, and she can probably talk about or
demonstrate
it. Although Mistress Morgana has hair that makes me want to send her
to
my stylist with a sign that reads “will dominate for new do,” she is
clearly
good at her job (or is it a calling?). She takes great care to
highlight
the role of consent in BDSM, and to point out that physical, emotional
and sexual safety need to be of paramount concern in all sexual play,
whether
it come in the form of safe words, condoms, or keeping safety shears
and
fire extinguishers handy.
The video is part lecture, part demo and
part “play-in-action.” The Mistress’ little demo helpers, while not the
best actors in the world, are both cuties who don’t look like porn
stereotypes.
Even in the “actual couples” scenes, the participants look like real
people
and have real bodies. The makers of the film have included scenes of
couples
that acknowledge diversity. Of the two couples portrayed in the scenes,
one was a straight couple of colour and the other a lesbian couple. In
my opinion, the latter couple, presented as a more advanced couple in
S/M,
had the most exciting scene of the entire film.
My recommendation: For people who are beginning
S/M, or someone who is trying to introduce her partner to S/M gently,
this
film pretty much establishes all you need to know to get started in a
way
that won’t scare the bejeezus out of you or her. After this movie, your
partner might be more likely to ask after that box of toys that you
keep
under or next to the bed, just in case. If you already have a
relationship
that goes beyond the basics, or are looking for a film more conducive
to
getting you immediately in the mood, then I recommend something a
little
riskier. This is a film that is mostly instructional, so rather than
just
feeling like a naughty schoolgirl, I thought I might have to take an
exam
at the end of it (which took a bit of the fun out of it for me). On the
other hand, I learned not only how to tie some fairly easy and safe
knots,
but also a few things that I would have felt stupid asking anyone
about.

Whipsmart...the
Beginner's Guide to BDSM
for Couples Instructional DVD
Sadly, No longer available for purchase
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