Female ejaculation (also known colloquially as
squirting
or gushing)
refers to the expulsion of noticeable
amounts of clear fluid by women from the paraurethral
ducts
and/or urethra during orgasm. The exact
source of the fluid is debated,
although some researchers believe it originates from the Skene's gland.
There are no standards or rules for this occurrence. It may appear
as incontinence or urinating during
sex, specifically during orgasm. Or in some women's cases, they have
always been "very very wet"
during arousal and climax.
Here are a few tips:
Empty your bladder first. The
feeling just
before ejaculating is
similar to the feeling you have when you have to pee, but you want the
urge to come on as a result of arousal and not a full bladder.
Practice in a comfortable
place. This
suggestion is very
important so that you are relaxed and ready when
the feel the urge to "release". A few places to try to
practice may be in the bath or while sitting on the toilet. The main
thing is to drop your apprehensions and literally "go with the
flow"!
Usually ejaculation will come
on as a result of
stimulating the paraurethral glands
and/or the g-spot (urethral
sponge).
Stimulating the g-spot for
any length of time
will be
easiest to do with a dildo, insertable toy or vibrator.
Any toy that is firm, or one
that is curved
for g-spot stimulation will do. Use a lot of clitoral stimulation,
but also stimulate your
urethra by massaging inside the top of your vagina both around the
opening and inside a few inches. Many women find urethral stimulation
very pleasant in and of itself. Keeping up the clitoral stimulation you
may also want to try and stimulate the g-spot
.
Vary the strokes and the
pressure and
experiment with
what feels good. As you are doing this you may feel the urge to urinate
(along with
feeling very excited and hot!). This happens
just prior to ejaculating. At this point as we said before, just "go
with the flow" and let it all out.
It's difficult to
describe
precise specific instructions for Female Ejaculation, however, we
do carry a great DVD on the subject, The
Art of Female Ejaculation. It is an in depth how-to, with actual
ejaculation footage. And
remember,
as with all matters of sexual response and
behavior, try it... if you like it, do it again! If you don't
like it,
don't do it anymore!
The Octu-pussy Glass G-spot
toy works best when half-sitting upright with legs spread apart and
relaxed. Explore with the tip, holding the "tail" like a handle on a
mug, then slide the tip in slowly with lubricant. It's designed with
plenty of "sensory" nubs and perfectly tilted for G-Spot stim, too!
If you choose to try it anally, the doggy-style position, prone laying
on the edge of a bed or straddling a pony bench will give you the best
angle for insertion. Vaginally or anally, it's girthy, so you will know
it's there!
Since
this is a Pyrex [Borosilicate] glass toy, there is no need to worry
about cleaning, because any cleanser or cleaning method will do the job!
You can boil it, put it in the dishwasher, or just use an
antibacterial soap and rinse with hot water! Whatever works best for
you.
Store for safe keeping in its original box.
Octu-Pussy Glass G-spot Massager for Head Banging
Orgasms!
Curvy, bumpy, sexy
and girthy... yes! All of the above
describes this amazing Borosilicate glass insertable G-Spot stimulator
that will have every gal screaming out a head-banging orgasm! The
smooth ridges on one side and the nubby "tentacles" on the other make
it so versatile, it feels different each time you use it! Use it solo
for some amazing masturbation releases... or hand it to your partner
and ask nicely for some special Octu-pussy attention -- guaranteed to
leave you breathless!
Loud
Oragsms: Using your Voice for your
Best Orgasm Ever
Loud orgasms are powerful orgasms that
occur when you
engage your voice with deep belly sounds when climaxing. The more you
let go and the more vocal you become during lovemaking, the better your
chances of having your best orgasm ever.
Allowing themselves the pleasure of moaning
orgasms can sometimes be
really difficult for women. Shyness and feelings of insecurity can
contribute to staying silent between the sheets. The irony is that men
generally find vocal women a real turn-on and simply love their
partners to get loud.
The
free flow of this energy is essential to feeling more
pleasure. Some women even report spontaneous orgasms, multi-orgasms and
female
ejaculation when they allow themselves to make deep belly sounds
while arousal is building.
If you're feeling particularly vulnerable
around this
issue, practice making sounds during solo sex first. Breathe deeply
into your belly through-out self-pleasure. Focus on low and deep tones
as they come from way down in your body cavity and allow the best
orgasmic response to come forth. With practice you will find that the
energy of loud orgasms vibrate your genitals and this energy moves
through-out your entire body.
When you have succeeded in improving the
quality of your
orgasms during solo sex, give yourself permission during intercourse to
moan, hum, groan, sing and shout your way to ecstasy and bliss.
Your lover will thank you too!
Click
on
above photo for
an example
The
Art of Female Ejaculation
Join
psychotherapist Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D. as she shows
you a new world of women's orgasms that
allow them to gush
as much as 2 cups of ejaculate through our exclusive
female ejaculation movie!
The Art of Female Ejaculation DVD now shows
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pleasure of gaining the wisdom from Lisa's exclusive techniques to
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scenes
throughout the entire 1.5 hour video! Lisa imparts an incredible gift
through
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Art
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